Friday, October 4, 2024

Change over time..in me

 I have stopped rating books, TV shows and movies based on how much I "liked" them or "enjoyed" them.

I rate them as 'good' if I watch the whole thing and 'not so great' if the item cannot hold my attention till the end. 

Before, I would reread a book I liked or see a show or movie for the second time: that was  my positive assessment of the item. These days, I dont have the time or patience to see something again (except humor comedy shows). Also there are millions of books, movies and shows which I am yet to see for the first time!

In the past, I would rave about a book or show which I liked, to my friends and family, begging them to  read it or see it. Now, I don't seem to have any friends who read the same books I do...see the same movies or shows.

In the past, I obsessively acquired all the books of an author I liked...even the books I did not like! Now...no space in my home at all....it's a hoarder's junkyard! Also, I realized, once I buy a book, I don't ever touch it; once I buy a dvd, it remains unopened for ever. 

I also relentlessly hunted a book I wanted, even going so far as to buy on ebay or amazon, paying a significant chunk of money. Now, the relentlessness has ceased completely. I just keep thinking of the show I would love to watch but dont pursue it like before . Some shows I want to see but don't have access to are: the Rockford files, Colombo, some British comedy and crime shows...I am waiting to retire from work before subscribing to the channels which air these shows.

Another way I expressed my appreciation of a book in the past was presenting it to my friends (The last I did this was buying multiple copies of Vivek Shanbhag's Ghachar Ghochar and presenting to my friends..I think two friends read it and the remaining 8 did not!) Now I realize that people (at least my folks) prefer to stick to their taste and will not try to read if a book is 'forced' upon them.

Talking to younger generation about my favorite books and authors and encouraging them to try was something I did before but not now. Luckily I could influence two of my three sisters into reading and liking the books in the past. The current generation seem to have zero interest in reading (at least in my family) and their taste in shows and movies seems to be quite different...or... my nephews and nieces in India don't have access to the shows I recommend. 

I spent hours fantasizing the plots and shows of favorite books and movies in the past. 

Now...no time to do that

...also too many unread and unseen books and shows to look forward to. Now I am like a monkey let loose in a orchard full of trees with ripe mangoes...I am taking a bite of one and then moving on to another ...not eating one fully and relishing but hurrying on to taste more and more in a hasty frenzy







Thursday, July 11, 2024

Hey. I have a question...

If Anant's looks were like Radhika's  and Radhika's looks were like Anant's,  would Anant have married  Radhika?

Saturday, October 14, 2023

I will never go to Bombey Bhel at Richmond Hill, Ontario, Canada ever again! It's an expensive rip off, serving sub-par tasting food!

 Today, October 14, 2023 I got chicken vindaloo paying 22$...All I got was 2 small pieces of chicken, 3 pieces of potato....and. very average taste! 

22$ for 2 small pieces of chicken..is a f....g rip off!

It was good years ago but awful now..


My unfortunate husband got  a long piece of plastic paper in his vegetarian food!

Monday, April 10, 2023

Mike Lawson

 This is the latest favorite author of mine!

Crime fiction...at the American government's home in Washington DC...with humor, 3 characters in all 15 books and fast paced.

I hope you all get a chance to read these books. All 15 are available in Toronto public library

The inside ring

The second perimeter

House rules

House secrets

House justice

House divided

House blood

House odds

House reckoning

House rivals

House revenge

House witness

House arrest

House privilege

House standoff

Alligator alley


Thursday, February 2, 2023

Shows to enjoy in the winter of 2022 and 2023

 The relentless grey days of past weeks and the frigid temperatures of this week(first week of February 2023) in Toronto, creates a mild unpleasantness and low mood for me. To counter this, my favorite activities are watching TV shows or movies and reading .

I found these two shows on CTV throwback, effective antidepressants:


Hunter: 

Barney Miller: Of the 100s of shows I have watched over the years, this is the most comforting show ever...(like comfort food I mean)

I do hope I get a chance to see more shows on the previous decades.

I feel I am an old soul trapped in 2023...I need to be in 1970 or somewhere at that time when the world was different... I seem to enjoy old shows and just can't be attracted to the new ones.

Monday, December 26, 2022

Good Irish movies and shows and other undiscovered gems on Tubi.com in Canada

 I have enjoyed these Great Irish TV shows and movies the last few days (Dec 2022) on Tubi.com in Canada.

I recommend anyone interested in Crime shows to watch these on Tubi.com which is free and has very few ads! The reason I am writing this list here is because the whole list does not show up when you browse and you are unaware of all available shows when you choose.

Movies: Fay Grim ( I really liked this actress!)


TV shows

1) Amber

2) Red rock ( I watched a while ago and not in Dec 2022) 

3) Proof (just started watching it)

4)Acceptable risks


These Irish shows are a refreshing change from the American and British shows I usually watch. 


I enjoyed McCallum too on Tubi but this may not be an Irish TV show.

Sunday, December 25, 2022

November 22, 2022 at the David Crombie Park in downtown Toronto: National Housing Day











 






The junction neighbourhood: Window decorations December 3rd, 2022








 





Hawaii tropical plants at The Hub at Eglington and Brimley

The cold weather and grey skies of Toronto gives me the winter blues. I try to beat these blues by watching crime fiction shows set in hot weather places (such as Magnum P.I set in Hawaii and Death in paradise set in a fictional Carribean island) and visiting the indoor gardens with tropical plants (such as the Allan Garden Conservatory which has been shut for more than 2 years now!)
It gave me great pleasure to look at this wall of tropical plants in the Hub at Eglinton and Brimley which I visited recently. 

You need green to clear away the blues !







 

Fleurs De Villes NOEL: Bloor-Yorkville December 7-11, 2022

I went to Bloor Yorkville and saw the lovely flower arrangements spread over Yorkville. Below are a few photos. I did not follow the flowers map, I was cold and had only an hour of free parking and therefore could not see all the arrangements. 

















 

























Change over time..in me

 I have stopped rating books, TV shows and movies based on how much I "liked" them or "enjoyed" them. I rate them as ...